
I don’t recall which author said it, but I’ve always remembered a very specific piece of writing advice:
Write about the things you can’t forget, the things that keep you up at night.
I take that to mean: write about scenes you can’t stop replaying in your head, write about the moments that still horrify and provoke you, write about the events where you’d like to dig a hole in the ground and disappear from the world in which they ever existed.
In the latest Glimmer Train bulletin, Roxana Robinson discusses that impulse—to write toward your anxieties. She says:
All the fiction I write arises from the same sort of impulse: it’s a feeling of discomfort, a kind of unspecified anxiety, a need to uncover something that troubles and disturbs me. I write toward that feeling. I try to explain it to myself in order to disarm it, to rob it of its potency. I don’t know how this explanation will happen. I don’t know how the disarmament will take place, or what else will happen in the process.
Also this month at Glimmer Train:
- Interview with Myla Goldberg by Sarah Anne Johnson
- Interview with Javier Marias by Eli S. Evan

Jane Friedman has spent her entire career working in the publishing industry, with a focus on business reporting and author education. Established in 2015, her newsletter The Bottom Line provides nuanced market intelligence to thousands of authors and industry professionals; in 2023, she was named Publishing Commentator of the Year by Digital Book World.
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This idea has come to mind the past week as a way to face my fears. They are especially descriptive and, yes, scenes that play over and over. Thanks for this post.
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Thank you. Great article! I found you through Joanna Penn.
I am so glad you posted these links and introduced me too such talented writers. I read this post and the linked articles. These are truly thoughtful writers and they inspire me. I’d love to read more by Roxana Robinson and Javier Marias. All three are lovely pieces. Thank you, Jane!
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