The Comfort of Mourning Doves

Mourning Doves

Mourning Doves in Over the Rhine

Since returning from San Francisco last week, I’ve been enjoying the presence of two mourning doves outside my apartment.

There are few trees where I live in Over the Rhine (downtown Cincinnati), so I’m surprised that any birds are nesting nearby. But this cute monogamous pair seems like they’ve settled in for the season since I keep hearing them each day.

To be clear, I am not a naturalist. I can’t identify even the most common trees or flowers, and my mother is frequently dumbfounded at my ignorance of Midwestern flora and fauna.

I’ve also openly admitted in business meetings that I do not like flowers, puppies, or babies. People move further away from me after such statements—and I do exaggerate, but not by much.

So I don’t know why I’m charmed. I have no interest in birds. But every morning as I wake up, I wait to hear their call. It’s a comforting and friendly presence that feels like a hopeful sign—although of what I don’t know.

About Jane Friedman

Jane Friedman is a full-time assistant professor of e-media at the University of Cincinnati, and the former publisher of Writer's Digest. She has spoken on writing, publishing, and the future of media at more than 200 events since 2001, including South by Southwest, BookExpo America, and the Association of Writers and Writing Programs.

  • Nate Love

    “I’ve openly admitted in business meetings that I do not like flowers, puppies, or babies.”

    Do you know how much value such an honest and humourous statement like this brings to the business world?

  • http://www.janefriedman.com Jane Friedman

    Thank you, Nate. Hope others share your view. :)

  • Erika Robuck

    Very sweet. I especially loved when you said you don’t like flowers, puppies, or babies. :)

  • Anonymous

    But some of us think you are full of it. And wish we could send over some flowers, puppies, and babies to take replace the doves. ;)

  • http://www.janefriedman.com Jane Friedman

    You got me. I can be a sucker for flowers from romantic partners. But I really can do without those other two things. ;)

  • http://www.janefriedman.com Jane Friedman

    :)